The Innocence of Events: Why Nothing Is Personal and Everything Is Power
A poem on the innocence of events and how judgment creates pain. A reflection on meaning, memory, and the small interval where freedom lives.
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Some things touch us more deeply than they should — not because the event carries harm, but because something older inside us rises to meet it. This poem looks at that hidden place where meaning is made, where fear and memory speak first, and where clarity waits, quietly, if we allow it to enter.
The Innocence of Events
The stone does not know it has struck you. The word, once spoken, forgets itself immediately, becomes air, becomes nothing, moves on toward other mouths, other silences.
Only you remain in the room where the meaning was assembled, brick by brick, out of old winters, out of a childhood you no longer visit but which visits you, unannounced, whenever a door slams somewhere far away.
I have seen the empires rise and answer for their ruins. I have seen a man weep over a single sentence while a country burned quietly behind him, unweeping. This too is a kind of history — not what happened, but what we decided it meant.
Marcus, in his tent at the edge of the world, wrote it plainly, without ornament, the way a man writes who expects to die soon and has no more time for beautiful lies: the thing itself is innocent. The market falls. The letter arrives. The friend is silent. These are facts, and facts do not accuse.
It is the small tribunal inside the skull that convenes without invitation, that calls the witnesses of fear and habit, that passes sentence before the evidence is heard.
I have wanted, all my life, to build a house that does not shake when the wind of other people merely passes by it. Not indifference — I do not mean indifference. I mean the clear eye that sees the wind is wind, and not a verdict.
We are given one instrument we may still tune ourselves in a century that tunes everything else for us: the interval between the world's arrival and our word for it. In that narrow room, that half-second of silence, a man is still, faintly, free.
If freedom exists anywhere, it lives in that small pause before meaning — the quiet interval where the world arrives untouched and we decide, gently or fiercely, what it will become. The event is innocent. The judgment is ours.
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Thank you for reading.
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