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A Sleepless Night of Marcus Aurelius

A parable about wakefulness, duty, and the quiet truths found when the world is asleep. Night opens the sky, and thought shifts into honesty. The stars keep their distance, teaching us ours. The moon moves slowly, as all understanding does. Perspective arrives without hurry, but it arrives. I can’t sleep the next night in a row. My thoughts wander to my children, my husband, my father… and always, still, to my late mum. So many beautiful summers I had with her. She was an adventurous lady — brave in quiet ways — and even from behind the iron curtain she somehow managed to travel abroad and show us a little piece of the world. She taught me something simple: "When you can’t sleep, don’t let your mind spiral into worries. Tell a story instead. Write something. Give your thoughts a place to land." So I do. And tonight, my story drifts toward Marcus Aurelius — another restless soul who once lay awake, turning over the weight of life in the dark. A Sleepless Night of Marcus Aure...
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Rising Above the Noise: Saying No to Provocation

 Rising Above the Noise: A Stoic Reflection

Stoic wisdom, family conflict, rising above provocation, clarity and calm, Epictetus quote, morning meditation, affirmations, serenity, mindfulness, philosophy of life

Yesterday was Sunday—a day of family, warmth, and gathering. Yet even in the comfort of familiar faces, sharp words can appear. Someone said something to me—quick, cutting, and designed to provoke. For a moment, I felt the fire rise. I was so close to replying in the same way, to starting a war of words that would have left scars on the day.


But then I remembered Epictetus: “It is not events that disturb people, but their judgments about them.”
I paused. I zoomed out. I saw the whole picture. Their words were not truth, only noise. Their frustration belonged to them, not to me. And in that pause, I chose clarity over chaos.

The small stayed small. The pattern became visible. I walked steadily in clarity.


This is the gift of Stoic wisdom: the reminder that serenity is not found in controlling others but in guiding our own judgments. Each time I repeat within myself:
🌿 I rise above distractions.
👁️ I see the whole, not the fragment.
🚶 I walk steady in clarity.


…I feel lighter. Stronger. Free.


So today I feel like a winner. Quiet and calm. Thanks to the Stoics, I walk steady in clarity.


By the way, after the incident I took a nap. For the first time, I had a dream about my Mum, who passed away in May. I didn’t see her, but I listened to her beautiful voice. She took me on a journey into paradise. She told me that in Heaven, where she lives now, there are flowers and trees which sing. I wish it would be the truth.
All the best to my readers. We will all meet again somehow, in our Heavens.

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✨ For more on this reflection, I’ve shared it in my latest video: Stoic Thoughts to Start the Day #21: Saying NO to Provocation. Join me there, and let’s begin the day with clarity and strength.


Premiere: 24 November 2025, 7:00 a.m. London time

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